心语姐姐:我结婚8年,有一个5岁的女儿,和先生感情很好。我是那种比较任性的女人,有时候有点儿强势,他一直比较包容、迁就我。但是去年,他出轨,被我发现。他对我表示了忏悔,也和那个女人断绝了关系。看在我们的感情和孩子的分儿上,我也很想原谅他,但是这半年多来,我发现我根本做不到,只要一想到他曾经背叛我,我就陷入疯狂,就想折腾、折磨他。时间长了,我们两个人都受不了了。为什么原谅一个人,会这么难? Xinyu Sister: I am married for 8 years, has a 5 year old daughter, and Mr. feeling good. I am the kind of more self-willed woman, sometimes a little strong, he has been more tolerant to me. But last year, he derailed and was discovered by me. He showed me repentance and also cut off from that woman. Look at our feelings and children’s points, I would also like to forgive him, but this more than six months, I found that I simply can not, as long as he thought he had betrayed me, I was caught mad, want to toss, Torment him A long time, both of us can not stand it. Why forgive a person, will be so difficult?