随着年龄的增长,孩子变得越来越有主见,他会思考你说的话有没有道理,自己是否可以接受。往往这时候,家长很轻易给孩子扣上“叛逆”、“不听话”之类的帽子。其实,真正叛逆的孩子并不多,归根结底是我们没有真正了解孩子,没有掌握与孩子沟通的方法。所以,在与孩子“较量”的过程中,光有爱是不够的,还要有技巧。中午,爷爷在厨房里喊吃饭,我和儿子不约而同地放下了手中的书,一前一后去洗手。我洗的时候,儿子等在一边说:“妈妈,我可以不抹肥皂。”看到我面带疑惑,他接着说:“因为我没有你看书的时间长(手上不会沾那么多 As you grow older, your child becomes more and more assertive, thinking whether the words you say have any truth or not and whether they are acceptable. Often at this time, parents are very easy to buckle the child ”rebellious “, ”disobedient “ kind of hat. In fact, there are not many children who really rebellious. After all, we did not really understand children and did not have the means to communicate with them. Therefore, in the process of ”contesting“ with children, it is not enough to have love, but also to have skills. At noon, my grandfather called for dinner in the kitchen, and my son and his wife invariably put down the book, one after the hand to wash their hands. When I was washing, my son waited and said: ”“ Mom, I can not soap. ”“ When I saw my doubts, he went on to say: ”Because I do not have a long time to read a book so many