吃不到葡萄就说葡萄酸,这是自欺欺人者的可悲心态。人生不可能什么都得到,总有你可望而不可及的事物,必须从容面对,淡泊处之,才可心平气和。假如不能襟怀坦荡,而是胡怨乱恨,将酸葡萄心理再转化成烈焰般的嫉妒,那就不仅可悲而且还使自己变得可笑,象小丑一样出乖露丑, Grapefruit is not eaten when you can not eat grapes, which is a sad mentality of self-deception. Life can not get anything, there is always something you can not reach, must calmly face, be indifferent to place, can calm down. If not flamboyant, but hate resentment, the sour grapes into psychology into flames of jealousy, it is not only sad but also make himself become ridiculous, like a good clown like a clown,