我和老公AA制生活了一年。最近母亲突然生重病,我想拿出自己所有的积蓄去给母亲看病,但老公不同意,还说不会负担我以后的生活。我突然觉得他好无情,这日子接下来怎么过?他的说法确实让人寒心,你当然会觉得他无情,且把这当作最坏的可能性吧。为了避免你冲动下结论,还是要考虑其他的可能,并留出时间观察。在此期间,你需要做好财务预算。 My husband and I made a year of AA system. Recently, my mother suddenly became seriously ill. I wanted to show all my savings to my mother, but my husband did not agree and said she would not afford my future life. Suddenly I felt he was relentless, what happened to the rest of the day? His statement was really chilling, and of course you felt he was relentless and treated it as the worst possibility. To avoid your impulsive conclusions, consider other possibilities and set aside time for observation. During this period, you need to make a good financial budget.