我1953年生于西安,因父母在甘肃工作,我从小在外爷家长大。外爷身材颀长,面颊清瘦,蓄着胡子,说着一口改良过的陕北话。那时,外爷已有了4个外孙子(女),但3个都随我二姨在北京,只有我一个在外爷膝下,故深得他老人家宠爱。我四五岁时还可以随意跨上外爷的肩头或在床上把他当马骑,说我是他的掌上明珠,一点也不过分。以后虽说妹妹弟弟 I was born in Xi’an in 1953, because of my parents working in Gansu, I grew up outside my father’s family. Outside the body long stature, thin cheeks, with a beard, talking about a modified North Shaanxi dialect. At that time, the Lord had already had four grandchildren (women), but all three were with my second aunt in Beijing. Only when I was a man was under his knees, he won the favor of his elderly people. When I was four or five years old, I was free to jump on the shoulder of a man or ride him on a bed, saying that I was his palm pearl, not too much. Although later sister younger brother