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孩子每经历一件事情就好像是一局扑克游戏,如果他在每局游戏的过程中,都能得到家长的欣赏、鼓励和赞同的话,他一定会产生成就感和价值感。“十一”小长假,带着妻儿和好朋友小聚,几家人住在一栋别墅式酒店里面,孩子们欢声笑语玩着他们的游戏,一群成人在一起开始打扑克牌,玩着久违的传统游戏———升级,我就好像回到了大学时代———几个同学欢声笑语地聚集在宿舍里光着膀子打扑克牌的情景,仿佛就在昨天。玩了一段时间后,我的运气变得越来越差,手上的牌特别差,每次摸到手里的牌就好像是商量好的一样———惨不忍睹,这样持续了一段时间后,
Every child experiences a thing like a poker game. If he can enjoy the parents’ appreciation, encouragement and approval in each game, he will certainly feel a sense of accomplishment and value. “11 ” a small holiday, with his wife and children and good friends get together, several people living in a villa-style hotel inside, the children laughter and play their games, a group of adults together to start playing poker, Playing a long time ago, the traditional game --- upgrade, I seem to be back to college - a few students laughter gathered in dorm bare shoulders play poker scene, as if just yesterday. After playing for some time, my luck is getting worse and worse, the cards in my hands are particularly poor, each time I feel the cards in my hand as if I had a good discussion - appalling, so after a while,