我爱北京天安门:我为督促孩子用功读书而感到烦恼,我总是认为他学习不积极、欠主动。有时,更怀疑孩子是否天生不爱学习。这不,快暑假了,我又被老师喊去批评了一顿——说我的孩子学习动力缺乏。光明老师:你说的问题很有代表性:“作业做完了吗?”几乎成了每个家长下班回到家里的第一句话。爱玩,是每个孩子的天性,没有一个孩子天生是喜欢做作业的,家长们严厉的督促和指责反而会让孩子们更加厌烦做作业,他们嘴上不说,但行动上磨磨蹭蹭。望子成龙望女成凤的家长们看在眼里急在心里怒在口里,家庭关系变得更加紧张,问题非但没有解决,反而增添了更多烦恼, I Love Beijing Tiananmen Square: I was troubled by urging my children to study hard, and I always thought he was not active in learning and less active. Sometimes, it is even more suspicious whether a child is born to love learning. This is not, fast summer vacation, and I was shouted by the teacher to criticize the meal - that my child lack of motivation to learn. Bright teacher: The question you said is very representative: “Did the assignment finish?” It almost became the first sentence that every parent got home from get off work after returning home. Love to play is the nature of every child. No child is naturally like to do homework. Parents’ strict supervision and accusation will make the children more annoyed and do homework. They do not say anything but act morally. Succeed look into the eyes of women into the phoenix parents see in the eyes of anger in my heart angry in the mouth, family relations have become more nervous, the problem has not been solved, but added more trouble,