许多家长发现,孩子到了一定的年龄会将自己封闭起来,原来活泼开朗的性格也变得孤僻了。对孩子的这种变化,做父母的往往既担心又不知如何是好。其实,要改变孩子的这种状况,首先应弄清产生这种现象的原因。从心理学的角度来分析,青少年的这种心理和言行上的变化,是青春期发展过程中的一种正常现象,叫做“心理闭锁”。产生这种现象的原因主要有两个方面:一是青少年独立意识的增强。处于青春期的孩子抽象思维的能力逐渐增强,会积极地用自己的内心去体验世界,对父母的依赖性逐渐减弱,有时会做出一些“小大人”的举动,这是“心理断奶”的表现,是走向成熟的起始。但是,由于其对事物有时还把握不住,往往会出现将自己与成年人对立起来的行为。二是自我意识的发展。青少年的智力已经发展到一定的水平,自我 Many parents find that when children reach a certain age, they close themselves up and their lively and cheerful characters become withdrawn. Often parents are often worried and do not know what to do with this change in children. In fact, to change the situation of children, we must first understand the reasons for this phenomenon. From the perspective of psychology, this psychological and behavioral change in adolescence is a normal phenomenon in adolescent development and is called “mental blockade.” There are two main reasons for this phenomenon: First, the increasing awareness of adolescents’ independence. Children in adolescent abstraction ability of thinking gradually increased, will actively use their own hearts to experience the world, gradually diminished dependence on parents, and sometimes make some “small adults” move, which is “mental weaning” performance , Is the beginning of a mature. However, because they sometimes can not hold on to things, they often appear to antagonize themselves and adults. Second, the development of self-awareness. Adolescent intelligence has developed to a certain level, self