江苏省通州市一家长来信说:我儿子10岁了,越来越不听我们的话。他犯了错,我们好好说不听,严厉地说,反而与你顶嘴。比如好几天作业没做就与同伴玩去了,还说作业在学校就做好了。我发现了,问他为什么说谎,他说没说谎,是忘记了。就算忘记了,也要写个检查,保证以后回家先做作业。他顶嘴说:“你也常犯错,怎么不写检查?”我气不打一处来,喉咙就响了,可儿子的喉咙比我还 A letter from a parent in Tongzhou, Jiangsu Province, said: My son is 10 years old and does not listen to us more and more. He made a mistake, we did not listen, sternly said, but talk to you. For example, after a few days of homework, I went to work with my friends and said homework was done in school. I found out and asked him why he was lying. He said he did not lie, he forgot it. Even forget, but also to write a check, to ensure that homework after the first homework. He said to him: “You often make mistakes, why not write a check?” I did not hit a hit, his throat rang, but my son’s throat than I also