邻居老李70岁,今年春节之际,和他共同生活了40多年的老伴得急病去世。过惯了老夫老妻相互照顾、相互依恋美好生活的老李,一个人面对空荡荡的家,觉得无趣,想走出家门也为“形单影只”而感到无聊——老年丧偶,使老李一下子处在悲苦、孤独和寂寞之中,吃饭不香,睡觉不实,生活黯无色彩。几个月下来,他已感到体质明显下降。前不久,又见到老李,他主动跟我说:“知道好的婚介所吗?我要找个伴!”后来又听说,老李已经托不少人给他介绍“对象”了。当前,随着观念的变化,不少丧偶的老年人都有再婚的心理和生理需求,像老李这样勇敢迈出再婚这一步的事也逐渐变得平常起来。但他们毕竟是上了岁数的人,许多情况又与年轻人不同,每个人都面临着来自儿女、家庭这样那样的困难和问题。能让他们找到如意的老伴,并幸福地生活,需要本人的谨慎选择,也需要人们的热心关注。那么对待老人再婚问题应采取怎样的态度呢? 70-year-old neighbor Li, the Spring Festival this year, and his life together for more than 40 years his wife died of acute illness. Used to the old husband and wife to take care of each other, mutual attachment, a beautiful life, Lao Lee, a person facing the empty home, feel boring, want to go out of their own homes but also for the “single shadow only” and boring - elderly widowed, so Laoli suddenly In sadness, loneliness and loneliness, the meal is not fragrant, the sleep is not real, the life is dark and colorless. A few months later, he has felt a marked decline in physique. Not long ago, I saw Lao Li again. He took the initiative to say to me, “Do you know a good matchmaking agency? I am going to find a companion!” Later, I heard that Lao Li had asked many people to introduce him to him. At present, with the change of concept, many elderly people who have been widowed have the psychological and physiological needs of remarriage. Things like the courageous remarriage such as Lao Li have gradually become commonplace. But after all, they are old people and in many cases different from young people. Everyone faces such difficulties and problems from their children and families. Allow them to find a satisfactory wife, and live a happy life, need their own cautious choice, but also people’s ardent attention. So what should be done about the issue of remarriage for the elderly?