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现今,由于诸多的因素,衍化出诸多“恨铁不成钢”的父母。可子女的天赋能力性向却由不得你指挥,由是,或“焚烧若等闲”或“一番寒彻骨”的家长作风应运而生,也就不足为奇了。有个女孩爱家猫,读书写字的间隙不免为之添食、为之描画。父母为强化她“考上重点中学”的志向,便令女儿抱上心爱的猫,当面投进工厂的炉膛。让女儿目睹宠物在火中惨嘶猛号然后咝咝作响化作轻烟灰烬的全过程。从此,女儿惊梦不已、盗汗不止,寝食难安、抑郁成疾,不得不以休学告终。那对父母自省:不曾溺爱娇纵,也不曾“口诛拳伐”。何错之有?殊不知,他们仍没躲过教子的第三大偏向
Nowadays, due to many factors, many “parents who hate iron” have been evolved. It is not surprising that the natural and spiritual nature of a child can not be directly controlled by your command, or that a “fatherless” or a “bitter” parenting style emerges. There is a girl who loves domestic cats, reading and writing the gap can not help but add food, painted. In order to strengthen her ambition to “focus on key middle school,” her parents clutched their beloved cats and put themselves in the hearth of the factory. Let her daughter witnessed the cat hissing fierce fire in the fire and then sobbed into the whole process of light ashes. Since then, my daughter was shocked, sweating more than night, sleepless nights, depression into disease, had to end to leave school. That parents self-examination: never spoiled spoiled, nor “ fierce punches ”. What’s wrong with each? As everyone knows, they still did not evade the third major bias of the godson