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这是一位来自内蒙古的母亲投来的稿件,讲述了由于自己的忽视导致孩子厌恶学琴而将琴摔碎后,自责、内疚、伤感等一系列五味杂陈的感受,但最终反思自身,学会理解、尊重孩子的想法,从而使儿子重拾小提琴的故事,结局令人欢喜。巧的是,在今年本刊第8期“成长空间”栏目,我们已刊登过她孩子的文章《庆幸没有抛弃你,小提琴》,母子俩讲的是同一件事。一把小小的提琴,由于误解曾成为儿子的痛,“我”的伤,仿佛亲情也随之碎了一地;但摔碎的琴,却给他们带来一次精神的洗礼和更多为对方思考的空间,从而让学琴重归原本该有的快乐。作为一位家长,理解、尊重孩子是一生必修的功课。希望借此文给更多的琴童家长以启发。
This is a manuscript from a mother in Inner Mongolia. It tells about a series of mixed feelings of self-criticism, guilt and sadness after children neglected to learn the piano due to their neglect. However, they eventually reflect on themselves , Learn to understand, respect the child’s thoughts, so that his son to resume the story of the violin, the outcome is rejoicing. Coincidentally, we have published an article about her child in the section entitled “Growth Space” of this issue No. 8 of this issue. “I am fortunate not to abandon you or violin.” The mother and son talk about the same thing. A little violin, the son of pain because of misunderstanding, “I ” of the wound, as if the family also will be broken; but the broken piano, but to bring them a spiritual baptism and more Mostly for each other space for thinking, so that the piano should return to the original happiness. As a parent, understanding and respecting children is a lifetime compulsory homework. I hope this article to more piano children to inspire.