在儿子很小的时候,我们就主张绝不溺爱。也是为了培养他的独立性,什么事尽量交给他自己去做。比如,吃饭时够不着餐桌没人帮,他只得想办法搬张小板凳叠加到椅子上,结果没坐稳摔得头破血流;送到医院打针同样不允许哭出声来,就算他哭我们都会硬着心肠不哄他。因为怕他日后娇气。我希望,这样能把他培养成勇敢的男子汉。 At a very young age, we advocate never being spoiled. But also to cultivate his independence, what to do as far as possible to his own to do. For example, no meal enough to help nobody at dinner, he had to find ways to move a small stool superimposed on the chair, the result did not sit up and fall badly; sent to the hospital also not allowed to cry out loud, even if he cried We will be hard-hearted not to coax him. Because he feels afraid of the future. I hope that this will make him a brave man.