记得我的儿子乐乐小时候,特别可爱漂亮(这是公认 的,而不是自夸),常常是领到街上就有不相识人的赞许 声。但乐乐很胆小。开始我没在意,是和其他的妈妈交流 经验时才发现的。我认为男孩子不应该胆小,将来还要闯 世界呢,所以开始了有意识的“练胆”。 去年夏天的一个晚上,我们领着儿子在街上逛,那时 街上还到处可见小贩推着装满雪糕的小车沿街叫卖的情 景。儿子想吃,要我去买,我掏出钱来让他自己去买,可 他死活不肯去。我想起我的一个朋友,她说她儿子小时候 I remember my son Lele was particularly cute and beautiful (which is recognized, not boast), often leading to the streets there are people who do not know the approbation. But Lele is very timid. I did not care at first, when I was exchanging experiences with other mothers. I think boys should not be timid, but also in the future to break into the world, so began a conscious “practice gall.” One evening last summer, we took our son to the streets and we saw hawkers selling ice-cream cars along the streets. My son wanted to eat, wanted me to buy, I took out money to let him buy, but he would not go to life and death. I am reminded of one of my friends, she said her son was a child