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在日常生活中,夫妻之间闹矛盾现象时有发生。处理得好,夫妻矛盾便很快和解;处理得不好,就会引起矛盾升级,甚至造成严重后果。然而,化解夫妻矛盾是有很多办法的:一是保持沉默。对方发脾气时,火头正旺,自己必须要冷静对待,面对对方的叫骂自己不能走开时就忍耐地保持沉默,暂不作声,慢慢地对方的怒气就会自然消失,那时再同他(她)作出解释。二是转移话题。夫妻发生口角时,一方要理智地把话题引开,最好是谈那些双方都感兴趣或者对方乐意接受的话题,如此夫妻舌战将能有效化解。
In everyday life, the phenomenon of conflict between husband and wife have occurred. If handled well, conflicts between husband and wife will soon be reconciled; if they are not handled properly, they will lead to escalation of conflicts and even serious consequences. However, there are many ways to resolve the conflict between husband and wife: First, to remain silent. The other temper, the fire is positive, he must be calm, the face of each other’s scolded himself can not walk away when patiently to silence, temporarily silent, and slowly the other side of the anger will disappear naturally, then again He (she) explained. The second is the transfer of topics. When the spat occurs, one side should sensibly lead the topic aside, it is best to talk about those two sides are interested in or the other party willing to accept the topic, so the husband and wife will be able to effectively resolve the war of words.