在赛场上,人们不仅为胜利者欢呼,也已经习惯了为失败者喝彩。然而,生活的赛场却未必如此,尤其在家庭教育里,失败的孩子往往要承受许多责问。如今孩子一入学,就要参加各种各样的“比赛”。期末考、阶段考、中考、高考、还有各种知识竞赛,最终的胜利者肯定不多。一旦自己的孩子失败归来,不少家长就无法忍受,劈头盖脸地指责孩子。 On the court, people not only cheer for the winners, but also get accustomed to cheering for the losers. However, this is not necessarily the case for the live courts, especially in family education, where unsuccessful children often endure many challenges. Nowadays, children enter a variety of “competitions” as soon as they enter school. Final exam, stage test, test, college entrance examination, there are all kinds of knowledge contest, the final winner certainly not much. Once their own children failed to return, many parents can not stand, blame the child.