中国有句话叫“吃亏是福”,听起来好像是弱者的自我安慰,可实际上,这句话渗透着道家处世的大智慧:以常人不舍得的付出来换取常人得不到的收获,这是道家最高明的处世之法。 将欲取之,必先予之 爱出者爱返,福往者福来。 春秋末年,齐国的国君荒淫无道,横征暴敛。齐国的贵族田成子看到这种情况后,对他的僚属说:“公室用这种榨取的手段,虽然得到了不少财富,但这种取是‘取之犹舍也’。仓储虽实,但国有不固。”于是田成子制 In fact, this remark permeates the great wisdom of Taoism in life: paying ordinary people not willing to pay for the gains that ordinary people can not obtain, This is the highest Taoist way of life. Will want to take it, must first love to return, blessing to blessing to. In the late Spring and Autumn Period, the monarchs in Qi deserted their way without excesses and exacted violence. After seeing such a situation, Qi Teng aristocrat Tian Chengzi said to his staff that “the public office has obtained a lot of fortune with this method of extravagance, but this kind of justice is not a problem.” Although true, but the state is not solid. "So Tianchengzi system