一次,去老友家串门儿,恰逢他夫妻二人闹别扭,笔者就被拉住当了判官。经询问方知,原来一段时间以来,妻子经常拿丈夫与圈儿内的朋友相比:论挣钱,不如某甲;论官位,不如某乙;比才华,又不如某丙……如此的三比两比,比得妻子气不打一处来,比得丈夫火也不由一边生。于是,夫妻间磨牙斗嘴,吵吵闹闹,家庭战事频仍。面对朋友间夫妻的矛盾, Once, go to old friend’s house door children, coincides with the couple hesitating, I was pulled when the judge. Upon inquiry, since the original period of time, the wife often took her husband and her friends in circles compared to: on the money, as a nail; on the official position, as a certain B; Than the ratio of two, than to get his wife did not hit a gas, compared to her husband was not help the fire side of Health. As a result, the couple rubbing their teeth, noisy, frequent family affair. In the face of conflicts between friends and husband and wife,