由于东方人的含蓄、内向的传统性格,加之千百年来的道德说教和社会礼仪,致使许多夫妻不善于向对方表达自己心中的爱意。人们可以接受热恋中的青年们一些热情浪漫的举止,但对于夫妻之间的情意绵绵,往往会之以鼻。人们习惯于看重婚姻的表面结果——生儿育女,组成家庭,但却往 Due to the subtle, introverted traditional character of the Orientals, coupled with moral preaching and social etiquette for thousands of years, many couples are not good at expressing their love to each other. People can accept some passionate and romantic behavior among the young people in love, but they often give suspicions to the affection between husband and wife. People are accustomed to seeing the superficial consequences of marriage - having children and raising children, forming families, but going