教育孩子是一门科学,是一门艺术,但许多家长却对此缺少学习,缺少研究,因而走入了误区。具体表现为: 一、方法粗暴当前,有很多家长忙于上班或外出经商,对子女的教育缺乏经常性,再加上周围不良环境的影响,个别子女会沾染恶习。对于子女的不良表现,有的家长不是对症下药,而是采取急风暴雨式的管教方法。这种简单粗暴的教育方法是子女所不能接受的,从而增加了教育的难度。 To educate children is a science and an art. However, many parents have lacked in learning about it and lacked research, so they have gone wrong. The concrete manifestations are as follows: I. Cruel methods At present, many parents are busy with work or going out for business. Their lack of recurrent education on their children and the adverse surrounding environment have caused some children to become infected with bad habits. For the poor performance of their children, some parents do not prescribe the right remedy but resort to the stormy method of discipline. This simple and rude way of education is unacceptable to children, increasing the difficulty of education.