访谈精选@一生甜橙:跟老公沟通的时候总是忍不住要说教,他跟我表达过不喜欢我这样的说话方式。请问黄菡老师,到底怎么说老公会听,又不像是在说教呢?答:如果你本着说教的初衷,那无论如何伪装他都能感觉到,先改变一下内心真实的态度吧。伴侣不是拿来管教的,是用来相伴的,如果认为“为他好”就可以管教他,不妨先试试让你妈妈来管教你一下喽。 Interview Featured @ life Orange: always communicate with her husband can not help but to preach, he told me to express my dislike like me to speak. May I ask Huang Huang teacher, in the end how to say her husband will listen, does not seem to be preaching? A: If you are in the original intention of preaching, then in any case disguise he can feel, first change the heart’s true attitude. Partner is not used to discipline, is used to accompany, if you think “for him ” can discipline him, may wish to let your mother to teach you about myself.