考前关心应适度:简单爱家长过度关注,效果却往往适得其反,孩子不但不理解,还常常和家长发生冲突。这其实更多涉及的是家庭教育的方式方法问题。又因为高三这个时段的特殊性,需要我们家长思考的问题就显得更多。有一点必须明确——孩子对家长的尊重与爱应该是自然而然、发自内心的,不是家长苦心孤诣地付出换来的,更不是硬让孩子感恩得来的。事实上,家长过度关注孩子以及孩子对自己的态度,是一种焦虑的表现;而这种焦虑外化为 Pre-test care should be moderate: a simple love of parents too much attention, the effect is often counterproductive, children not only do not understand, but also often conflict with parents. This is actually more about the ways and means of family education. And because of the special nature of this period of high school, the problem that needs our parents to think more appears. It must be clear - children’s respect and love for parents should be natural, heartfelt, not the parents paid to pay in turn, nor is it hard to let children grateful. In fact, parents’ excessive attention to their children and children’s attitudes about themselves is an anxiety manifestation;