如果你希望孩子具有慷慨大方的品质,很明显,有几点是不能做的:●不要强迫孩子与他人分享他感到很有感情的东西。●不要长篇大论地向孩子唠叨无私的美德和拒绝分享的丑恶。●在孩子拒绝与他人分享时,不要严厉地惩罚孩子。如果孩子卷入玩具等的争斗中时,恰当的方法是把孩子隔开来,送回自己的房间,直到他的行为表现较好为止。打一巴掌或永久地没收玩具,很可能使孩子产生怨恨情绪并且更不情愿与他人分享玩具。 If you want your child to be generous, it is clear that there are a few things you can not do: ● Do not force your child to share what he feels very emotional about. ● Do not nagging children with selfless virtues and refusing to share the ugly. ● Do not punish the child severely when the child refuses to share with others. If your child gets involved in the battles of toys, etc., the proper way is to separate the child and return it to his room until his behavior is better. Slapping or permanently confiscating toys is likely to make children feel resentful and reluctant to share toys with others.