“自从我遇到他,我第一次产生了真心希望不被他杀死的愿望……他实在很强大、完美、聪明、勇敢……而且也是这个世界上第一个认同我的人……我内心一直在等待这种人的出现……”——盖布神恩多尔从某种程度来说人活在这世上就是等待被认同,只是每个人的追求度和被认同度不一样。对偶像的追逐看似是对他人的欣赏,其实也是一种自我认同,期待偶像的成功,因为这样等于验证自己的判断正确选择正确。更重要的是,我们往往在潜意识里寻找自己和偶像的相同之处,隐隐有一种同性相吸的昧道。勒布朗·詹姆斯,自称寻常人装扮的小丑,虽然私底下也是活泼爱笑的,但习惯用冷静的外表掩饰内心的波动,进而洞穿对手的 “For the first time since I met him, I had the desire to really wish I could not be killed by him ... He was really strong, perfect, smart and brave ... and the first person in the world who recognized me ... My heart has been waiting for the appearance of such people ... ”- Gatumbus God Endor to some extent, people live in this world is waiting to be recognized, but each person’s pursuit and recognition are not the same. The chase of the idol seems to be appreciated by others, in fact, is a self-identity, looking forward to the success of idols, because it is equal to verify their own judgments correct choice of the right. More importantly, we tend to subconsciously find their identity and idol in the same place, there is a hint of same-sex attraction ignorant. LeBron James, self-proclaimed clown clown, although privately also lively love to laugh, but the habit of using a calm appearance to cover up the heart of the fluctuations, and then piercing the opponent’s