如果下雨天路滑你不小心掉进了一个坑里,爬不出去,又冷又饿,此时有个人路过,你求他救你出去,可他却害怕自己也掉进去,不敢拉你,但他给你送来食物和衣服,还帮你报警求救。这时你会怎么想呢?是会想:这个人,只顾自己的安危,眼看着我在坑里却不肯拉,太冷漠了!抱着这样的想法,获救后,你不会对对方心怀感恩,反而会怨恨他。相反。如果你的想法是:我和人家非亲非故。人家还费心费力地给我送食物报警,真是个好心人。抱着这样的想法,你对那个路人肯定会满心感激!而你的感激也更容易赢得对方的友情。 If you slippery rain you accidentally fell into a pit, climb out, cold and hungry, this time a personal pass, you begged him to save you go out, but he was afraid he fell in, afraid to pull you , But he sent you food and clothes and helped you to call for help. At this time what would you think of it? Will think: this person, only his own safety, seeing I was in the pit refused to pull, too cold! With this idea, after being rescued, you will not heart to each other Thanksgiving, but will hate him. in contrast. If your idea is: I and others are not non-relatives. People are also bothering me to send food alarm, really kind-hearted people. With such an idea, you are bound to be grateful to the passerby, and your gratitude is more likely to win the friendship of the other.