中国的文人把商的亡国帐算在妲己身上，周的亡国帐算在褒姒身上，李唐江山由盛转衰的帐算在杨玉环身上，这种陈词滥调，鲁迅先生早已斥责过。在大节问题上，无论如何，男人是难辞其咎的。然而，换一下思维角度，丈夫的失足落水，其中也有个潜移默化的过程，在这个过程中，“夫 The literati in China have counted the perpetrators of the tragedies in their possession, and Zhou’s account of the deceased’s country in the world has fallen into disgrace. According to Yang Yuhuan, Li Tung-jiang’s rise and fall accounts for this cliché. Mr. Lu Xun has long denounced it. In any case, man is to blame. However, to change the thinking point of view, her husband’s loss and loss, of which there is a subtle process, in the process, "husband