近年来,三口之家的比例逐年上升,很多家长为了工作,孩子要什么有什么,只要乖乖的呆在家里就行。通过各种方式方法限制孩子与别人交往,造成孩子与家长的关系破裂,甚至对立。在学校中,融入不到集体当中去,冷漠,孤傲,甚至通过打架和做错事引起其他人的注意,人际关系搞不好,严重影响了孩子的健康成长。在学校中,怎样帮助学生搞好人际关系,应该引起各位教育工作的重视。新课程改革中很重视学生的合作互助学习,这从其所提倡 In recent years, the proportion of family of three rises year by year, many parents in order to work, what children have what, just obediently stay at home on the line. Through a variety of ways and means to limit children’s interaction with others, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship between children and parents, or even opposite. In schools, they can not integrate into the collective, indifference, loneliness, and even attract the attention of others through fights and wrongdoings, and engage in poor interpersonal relationships, seriously affecting their healthy growth. In schools, how to help students do a good job in interpersonal relationships should arouse the attention of all educational work. In the new curriculum reform, great emphasis is placed on students’ cooperation and mutual aid, which is advocated by them