中国古代的私塾先生在教书时,手里都会拿着一把戒尺。当学生犯错误时,这把戒尺就会狠狠地打在他的手心上。这是一种惩罚。而随着历史车轮的前进,戒尺代表的惩罚伴随着私塾的消失与我们渐行渐远。掌声逐渐代替了戒尺,人们越来越重视表扬、奖励和赏识,惩罚背负着伤害孩子心灵的罪名被人们渐渐淡忘。我们是否思考过,只有充斥着掌声的表扬,而没有戒尺落下的“啪啪”声,这样的童年健康吗?这样的教育成功吗?针对这一点,中国青少年研究中心副主任孙云晓提 Ancient Chinese private school teacher in the teaching, the hands will hold a ruler. When the students make mistakes, this will be severely punched in his palm. This is a punishment. With the progress of the wheel of history, the punishments represented by the paddles accompanied by the disappearance of the private school disappeared with us. Applause gradually replaced the paddles, people pay more and more attention to recognition, rewards and appreciation, punish the criminal charges of harming children mind gradually forgotten. Is this a healthy childhood? Is such education successful? In view of this, Sun Yunxiao, deputy director of China Youth Research Center, said: “We are not thinking about it, but only applauses filled with applause, and there is no” pop "