目前社会资讯和服务多样,教育理念百花齐放,城市生活普遍进入富裕水平。先进、开放、富裕的社会环境增加了家庭教育质量和父母选择的同时,也带给父母不少的焦躁情绪和教育压力。笔者提出了三点建议:从与时俱进中降温、了解早期儿童发展规律和培养父母的等待能力,以期为广大家庭教育中焦虑的父母一个思考和借鉴的视角。经过了9个月甚至更长时间的企盼与积淀,初为人父、人母,幸福与感动弥漫在每个人的脸上和心中,似 At present, various social information and services are diversified, the concept of education is flourishing, and urban life has generally entered a prosperous level. An advanced, open and affluent social environment has increased the quality of family education and choice of parents, while also bringing many anxieties and educational pressures to parents. The author put forward three suggestions: to cool down with the times, to understand the law of early childhood development and to raise the waiting capacity of parents, with a view to thinking and learning from anxiety parents in family education. After nine months or even longer the hope and accumulation, as the father, mother, happiness and moving in the face and heart of everyone, like