孩子来看我,朋友说他长得像我,尤其是背影极像。我忽然有些感动,想起朱自清的《背影》,父亲为儿子买橘子爬月台、跨栅栏,那蹒跚老态的背影,令我顿感眼里潮潮的。我打着手势对朋友说,我这孩子是一尺多带大的,如今都近1.8米高了。我没想孩子有大出息,只要他学会善待和感恩。父母亲戚且不论,同学同事朋友帮助过你,给过你温暖,客观上也等于帮你成就了人生。人是感情动物,应知道这些帮助弥足珍贵,应该心中有数,知道感恩。“隔代亲”是好事。爷爷奶奶,姥爷姥姥,常与孙辈在一起,该给孩子什么呢?是吃好、穿好、玩好,集千宠于孩子,还是赋予孩子优良的秉性和学 The children came to see me, and my friend said he looks like me, especially the back. I suddenly moved, reminded of Zhu Ziqing’s “back”, my father bought oranges climbing platform for his son, across the fence, the faltering old-fashioned back, so I felt a sudden surge of the eyes. I gestured to my friend and said that my child is more than a foot and is now nearly 1.8 meters high. I did not think that children have a great deal, as long as he learned to be kind and grateful. Parents and relatives, regardless of classmates and friends, friends helped you, give you a warm, objectively equivalent to help you accomplish your life. People are emotional animals, should know that these help precious, should be aware of, know gratitude. “Every other generation ” is a good thing. Grandparents, grandma and grandma, often with grandchildren, what should be given to children? It is to eat well, to wear well, to play well, to set a favor for children, or to give children the good nature and learning