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不轻松的婚姻肯定有很多种原因。但大多数不轻松的婚姻有一个共同原因,就是在复制父母的婚姻模式,重演父母的悲剧,却又无力摆脱。如果我们意识不到父母不良的婚姻模式对自己婚姻的破坏和影响,就不知道进行调整,既使想调整也不知如何下手。结果就有可能由我们把父母不良的婚姻模式,在自己的婚姻里照章演绎一番,然后继续传给下一代。父母的婚姻模式就这样一代代的传递着。
There are many reasons for not easy marriage. However, one common reason why most non-relaxed marriages share is that they duplicate their parents ’marriages and repeat their parents’ tragedies, yet they can not get rid of them. If we are not aware of the damaging effects of poor marriage patterns on our own marriage, we do not know how to make adjustments, nor do we know how to start even if we want to make adjustments. As a result, it is possible for us to interpret the bad marriage pattern of our parents in our own marriage and then continue to the next generation. Parents’ marriage patterns are passed on from generation to generation.