祥林嫂与姚纳的“苦恼”是没有人愿意倾听他们的倾诉,虽祈求关怀的爱却得不到,一个用死亡结束一生的凄冷,一个注定后半辈子与马驹交心的凄凉。本文主要从两个步骤:第一步,试图倾诉,有人倾听;第二步,渴望关怀,得到爱;解读祥林嫂与车夫姚纳的具体人生“苦恼”重压之下的心理活动,从而为当代社会所出现的人情淡漠问题寻求其症结所在。 There is no one willing to listen to their talk, though the prayers of caring love are not obtained. One is the desolation of a life ending with death and the desolation of a destined second half of life with a foal. This article mainly from two steps: the first step, trying to talk, someone listening; the second step, longing for care, get love; interpretation of the concrete life of Xianglinsao and coachman Yao satisfied “distress ” under the pressure of psychological activity So as to seek the crux of the indifference caused by the contemporary society.