与人相争,克己而从人,后己而先人,则善莫大焉。凡喜欢在游戏中争胜负的人,每当自己胜了,就兴致盎然,因为技高一筹而沾沾自喜。但也要想到如果败了,自己肯定会兴味索然。再想到我这一败,让别人高兴无比,恐怕就再也无心继续了吧。败别人的兴来让自己欢喜,是有悖道德的行为。 Confrontation with others, self-denial and from the people, and after their own ancestors, then the good Mo Yan. Those who like to win the game in the game, whenever their own victory, the spirited, because of skill and complacent. However, we must also think that if we lose, we will surely feel very satisfied. Think of my defeat, so happy others, I am afraid they no longer have the heart to continue. The defeat of others to make themselves happy, is contrary to ethical behavior.