幸福家庭建设的“一个根本诀窍与一千个操作方法”1.根本原因:不会说,不中听。2.道法自然,正确理念:首先建立人格平等、相互尊重、相互体谅、相互支持、相互信任的亲子关系。家长学会真爱孩子,孩子学会感恩,这是两个平等生命主体的合作关系,孩子不是父母的私有财产!黎巴嫩诗人纪伯伦的一首诗说得很好: Happy family building “A fundamental trick with a thousand methods of operation ” 1. Root cause: can not say, do not listen. 2. Dao naturally, correct concept: First of all, we should establish a parent-child relationship that is based on equality of personality, mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual support and mutual trust. Parents learn to love children, children learn to be grateful, this is the cooperative relationship between two equal life subjects, the child is not the parents’ private property! Lebanon poet Gibran said a good poem: