和居住在乡下的婆婆真正相处的日子是在我生小孩子“坐月子”期间。在这之前，众姐妹时常关心地问我和“乡下婆婆”相处得是否融洽，也有人向我诉说她们的“乡下婆婆”的种种不是。那时她们的诉说，曾吓得我忧心忡忡。生小孩之前，曾和婆婆见过两次面。一次是和丈夫确定恋爱关 The days when I lived with my mother-in-law living in the countryside were during my confinement. Prior to this, sisters often asked me with concern about getting along well with “my country mother” and some told me about their “country mother”. At that time, they were screaming and worried. Before she was a child, she met her mother twice. Once and her husband to determine love off