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常常有些父母诉说:孩子上初中以后,和双亲的关系不象以前那样亲近了,感情上仿佛蒙上了一层阴影,不太“听话”了。家长颇有些苦闷和不安! 这说明孩子已经进入了人生第二次“断乳期”——“心理性断乳期”。孩子从出生到成年和双亲的关系在不断地发生变化。这些变化大致可分为三个阶段:第一阶段是儿童期。这个时期对父母还保持着相当大的依附性,亲子之间关系亲昵,情感和谐,心理相容。第二个阶段是少年期。这个时期生理上发生急剧变化:首先,身体生长出现第二个高峰(第一个高峰为0岁到1岁)。身
Often, some parents tell that after their children have been in junior high school, their relationship with their parents is not as close as they used to be. Emotionally it seems that they have cast a shadow on them and are not “obedient.” Parents are quite depressed and disturbing! This shows that the child has entered the second life “weaning” - “psychological weaning”. The relationship of children from birth to adulthood and their parents is constantly changing. These changes can be broadly divided into three phases: The first phase is childhood. This period also maintained a considerable dependence on parents, parent-child relationship intimacy, emotional harmony, psychological compatibility. The second stage is adolescence. Physiological changes have taken place during this period: first, there is a second peak in body growth (the first peak is 0 to 1 year old). body