人生从分离开始,出生时婴儿与母体的分离伴随着强烈的痛苦体验;人生又以分离结束,死亡割断了死者与生者的一切联系,留下无尽的悲思;人生更是由无数次分离组成的片段,谁都无法逃避。然而正是在一次又一次的分离当中,人的心理得以成长和发展。没有经历过分离的痛苦,不算真正的人生;不能学会面对并适应分离的人,永远无法达到心理上的成熟。 Life begins with the separation. The separation of the baby from the mother at birth is accompanied by a strong painful experience. Life ends again with separation. Death cuts off all contact between the dead and the living, leaving infinite sadness. Life is separated by countless times The composition of the fragment, no one can escape. However, it is in the separation of time and again that human psychology can grow and develop. Never experienced the pain of separation, not a real life; can not learn to face and adapt to the separation of people, will never be able to achieve the psychological maturity.