俗话说:“少年夫妻老来伴。”可对于许多农村老年人来说,却有些可望而不可及。最近,笔者在调查中发现,近年来,农村老年夫妇因子女或家庭的原因,分居者在逐年增多,致使他们在生活上和情感上受到了不少的振荡。他们有几多酸楚,几多苦涩。几多困惑。 困惑一:心理的扭曲。 某村有一对年过五旬的夫妻,养了四个儿女。老两口辛辛苦苦,好不容易让两个儿子成 As the saying goes: “young couples with old friends.” But for many rural elderly, but some are elusive. Recently, the author found in the survey that in recent years, the elderly couples in rural areas have been increasing year by year due to their children or families, causing them to experience many oscillations in their lives and emotions. How sour they are and how bitter they are. How confused? One confusion: psychological distortions. A village has a pair of over Pentecost couples, raising four children. Old couple worked hard, finally let two sons into