现在很多人都十分关注性技巧,千方百计要尝试新花样。其实,过分和不当使用性技巧,容易造成性爱与情爱之间的脱节,不利于表达夫妻之间相濡以沫的关切与眷顾之情,这就好比过分依赖性工具,不利于夫妻情感交流的道理一样。因为性爱需要的是男女双方全身心的投入,包括情感的培植,彼此对异性世界的理解,以及性心理的协调与修养等等。在性爱过 Now many people are very concerned about sexual skills, do everything possible to try new tricks. In fact, excessive and improper use of sexual skills, easily lead to a disconnect between sex and love, is not conducive to expressing feelings and feelings of mutual concern between husband and wife, which is like over-dependence tools, is not conducive to the emotional exchange of truth. Because sex requires both men and women wholeheartedly invested, including the cultivation of emotions, mutual understanding of the opposite sex world, as well as the coordination and cultivation of psychology and so on. After sex