我不知道孩子是什么时候开始萌生“我”和“我的”意识的,但却清楚地记得“我”字在他脑海里膨胀并溢出的时刻。那是在他刚过3岁生日以后不久。一次,爸爸下班回来吃了他饼干桶里的最后几块糕点,尽管我们表示明天立刻给他买,他仍然哭闹打滚,不依不饶。还有一次,公共汽车上没有空座了,他拉着我的手站了约摸两分钟的样子后,便用全车厢都听得见的声音大喊道:“真讨厌,怎么没有一个人给我让座!” I do not know when my child started to develop “I” and “My” consciousness, but clearly remember the moment when the “I” bloated and overflowed his mind. It was shortly after he passed his 3rd birthday. Once, my father returned from get off work and ate the last portions of his crackers. Although we said he would buy it for him tomorrow, he was still crying and berating. On another occasion, there was no empty seat on the bus, and after he took my hand and stood for about two minutes, he shouted in the audible voice of all the cabins: “Really annoying, why no one? Give me a seat! ”