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1.孩子过分依赖别人的评价,源于父母的过度表扬或批评。适当的表扬有利于帮助孩子树立自信心,但在现实生活中,有些父母平时喜欢无原则地表扬孩子,结果导致了孩子缺乏自我意识,过分看重别人的评价,每做一点小事都希望得到表扬,否则就拒绝去做。同样,过度的批评也会伤害孩子的自尊心,使孩子看不到自我。因此,孩子出错时,家长需要有分寸地指
1. Children over-reliance on the evaluation of others, due to excessive praise or criticism from their parents. Proper compliment is helpful to help children build self-confidence, but in real life, some parents usually like to praise their children without principle. As a result, children lack self-awareness, they value too much the evaluation of others, they want to be praised for every little trivia, Otherwise refuse to do it. Similarly, excessive criticism can hurt the child’s self-esteem so that the child can not see the ego. Therefore, parents need to be measured in their children’s mistakes