老张今年66岁,他的一大“爱好”就是向别人抱怨自己的“不幸”:子女的收入没有朋友的孩子高;子女不像其他家的孩子那样经常来探望自己;当年不如自己的人,退休工资却拿得比自己高;自己的住房也没有别人的大,等等。抱怨的时候,经常越说越觉得自己可怜,直到眼眶发红、声音哽咽说不下去为止。其实,老张的条件在同龄人中是不错的:一子一女都是事业单位的骨干,工作也稳定;他本人每月拿着一笔不低的退休金;生病了有医疗保险……可是老张的注意力都集中在那些“不好”的事上,对其他事都不感兴趣,心烦、失 Old Zhang is 66 years old. His big hobby is to complain to others about his misfortune: the children’s income is high with no friends; the children do not often visit oneself as other children do; Not as good as their own people, retirement wages have taken higher than their own; their own housing no other people’s big, and so on. When complaining, I often feel more and feel more pitiful, until the eyes redness, the voice choked can not stop there. In fact, Zhang’s conditions are good among his peers: one son and one woman are the backbone of the institution, and the work is also stable. He himself has a monthly low pension; he is sick and has medical insurance ...... However, Zhang’s attention is focused on those “bad” things, are not interested in anything else, upset, lost