巴黎铁塔:你好!在帮你之前,首先要澄清一下你的问题是什么:是想提高学习成绩呢,还是想挽回已经谈了两年的爱情?你或许会说,两个都想要。那么,这才是你真正的问题所在了。经常会有学生问我:谈恋爱究竟会不会影响学习?认为会的人的理由是:事情明摆着,恋爱容易让人分心,现在学习任务那么重,一心一意已然不易,一心两用如何还能学好?当然,认为不影响学习的也大有人在,他们觉得 Eiffel Tower: Hello! To help you, we must first clarify what your problem is: do you want to improve your academic performance, or want to restore love that has been discussed for two years? You may say that both want. Well, this is your real problem. Often, there are students who ask me whether love will affect learning or not. The reasons people think of it are: things are obvious, love is distracting, and learning tasks are so heavy now that it is no longer easy to be one-minded and one-and-a- Of course, there are a lot of people who think that they will not affect their learning, and they think