按理说,父母应该是子女最亲近的人。可事实上,越来越多的中学生不信任父母,有话不愿说给父母听,甚至不愿意回家……这一方面说明中学生由于身心的不断发育成熟,独立意识、自我意识开始增强,试图摆脱家长的约束和管教;另一方面,可以说是不科学的家庭教育造成的。笔者做过大量调查,对中学生喜欢的父母类型归纳如下: 理解尊重子女 中学生最渴望父母能真正走进自己心里,了解自己的思想动态、兴趣爱好、喜怒哀乐,从而理解、支持自己的选择和追求。可惜很多做父母的并不懂得这 Arguably, parents should be the closest children. In fact, more and more middle school students do not trust their parents, they are reluctant to say to their parents, or even reluctant to go home ... This shows that due to the continuous development of physical and mental health of middle school students, independent awareness and self-awareness began to increase, Trying to get out of the constraints and discipline of parents; on the other hand, can be said to be caused by unscientific family education. I have done a lot of investigation, the type of parents like secondary school students summarized as follows: Understanding of children’s most respected children’s desire their parents can really walk into their own hearts, to understand their own thoughts and trends, hobbies, emotions, to understand and support their own choices and pursue. Unfortunately, many parents do not understand this