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一个“顽固不化”的父亲,一个“专门挑事儿”的儿子,引发他们之间矛盾的,其实还有另一个人……父子间的隔夜仇中国有句古话,无冤仇不成父子。这一点,在心理咨询中的呈现更为明显。很多时候,父子冲突的激烈程度远远高于母子冲突、父女冲突,而且很难和解。赵敬和小琦,就是这样的一对父子。从小琦小学六年级开始,父子俩已经断续地争执了两年!晚饭后,赵敬让儿子立刻写作业,小琦说:“刚吃饱,歇会儿!”5分钟后,儿子没行动,赵敬提醒儿子:“该写作业了!”过了10分钟,赵敬忍不住爆
A “stubborn” father, a son who “specially picks things up”, triggering contradictions between them, in fact, there is another person ... overnight overnight father and son hatred There is an old saying in China, no ancestry Not father and son. This point, the psychological counseling in the more obvious. In many cases, the intensity of conflict between father and son is far higher than that of mother-child conflict, father-daughter conflict, and it is difficult to reconcile. Zhao Jing and Xiao Qi, is such a pair of father and son. Xiao Qi primary school from the sixth grade, the father and son have been disputed for two years! After dinner, Zhao Jing let his son immediately homework, Xiao Qi said: “Just eat, rest!” 5 minutes later, the son did not act , Zhao remind his son: “The homework! ” After 10 minutes, Zhao Jing could not burst burst