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前几天,在心理咨询门诊中,有一位再婚妇女向我倾诉了隐藏在她内心的痛苦。 她与前夫因性情不合而离婚,一年前与现夫再婚。婚后最初几个月两人感情还不错,近来却常出现一些小摩擦,为此闷闷不乐,于不自觉中将现夫与前夫比。使她感到奇怪的是,越比越感到前夫并不像以前那样使她感到厌恶了,相反,越来越发觉现在的丈夫有许多地方还不如前夫,甚至后悔当初不该离婚。有时候冷静下来一想,又感到自已的想法很可怕。她怕重蹈覆辙,婚姻再度破裂,于是来到心理诊所。
A few days ago, in a counseling clinic, a remarried woman told me the pain hidden in her heart. She and her ex-husband divorced due to disagreement with a new husband a year ago. The first few months of marriage, the two feelings are not bad, but recently there are often some small friction, so depressed, do not consciously will husband and husband than before. To her surprise, the more she feels that her ex-husband does not dislike her as she used to, the more she finds out that her husband is not as good as her ex-husband in many places and even regrets that she should not have been divorced. Sometimes calm down and feel their own thoughts are terrible. She was afraid to repeat the same mistakes, once again broke the marriage, so came to the psychiatric clinic.