随着计划生育工作的进展,独生子女已经逐渐成为我国城市家庭中普遍的现实。独生子女与非独生子女在年龄特征和心理特征方面并无差异,当孩子在能够独立行走并掌握了简单的口头语言后,就自然会喜欢与同龄或年龄相近的孩子一起玩耍嬉戏,这大约是在孩子两岁前后,但由于独生子女家庭中没有年龄相仿的兄弟姐妹,如果父母亲不为孩子提供一些与同龄孩子相互交往的机会,孩子就容易产生孤独感,甚至于会出现“独占、自私、孤群、不合群”争性格特征,这就对孩子的成长产生不利影响了。因而,当孩子两岁以后,父母亲就应有意识地为孩子寻找一些年龄相仿的伙伴,比如从邻居中寻找,从亲友中寻找,使孩子有较多的机会与同龄伙伴相处。同龄伙伴给孩子带来的快乐,是任何请热儿童心理的成年人都不可企及的。几个在体能、智能、经验诸方面相差不多的孩子,很快就会玩得热火朝天,他们之间确确实实是有“共同语言”的。一个孩子想出来玩法,另一个孩子也一定玩得来,在玩的过程中,一方也不可能过分领先而使另一方失去兴趣。这种伙伴之间的交往,对于培养孩子的交友能力,竞争能力,以 With the progress of family planning work, the only child has gradually become a common reality in urban families in our country. Only children and non-only children have no differences in age and psychological characteristics. When children are able to walk independently and have a simple oral language, they naturally enjoy playing with children of their ages or ages. This is approximately Before and after the child is two years old, but because there are no older siblings in the only child’s family, the child tends to have a sense of loneliness even if the parents do not provide the child with some opportunities to interact with their children of the same age. , Lonely group, not gregarious “competing personality traits, which have a negative impact on the growth of children. Therefore, when the child is two years of age, parents should consciously look for their children some of the same age, such as looking for their neighbors and looking for relatives and friends, so that children have more opportunities to get along with their peers. The same age partners to bring happiness to children, any children who please hot children are unaffordable. A few kids who are similar in physical fitness, intelligence, and experience will soon have a good time in full swing and they really have a ”common language". One child wants to come out and play, and the other child must have fun. In the course of playing, neither side can lead too much and the other side can lose interest. Such exchanges between partners, to develop children’s ability to make friends, with the ability to compete