全世界的教育界几乎都盛行一个观点,那就是自尊心强的人往往能成功。在这一理论的指导下,孩子们每天都能得到大量表扬,学校也经常举行各种颁奖仪式。在美国,越来越多的老师开始避免这种“空洞的表扬”。因为大量与孩子的实际能力并不符的表扬,反而会成为孩子成功的障碍。教育工作者们 Almost all educational circles around the world have a popular view that those with strong self-esteem tend to succeed. Under the guidance of this theory, children get a lot of praise every day, schools often hold various awards ceremony. In the United States, more and more teachers begin to avoid this kind of “empty praise.” Because of the large number of commensurate with the child’s actual ability to praise, but will become a child’s obstacles to success. Educators