拒绝在本质上是一种威胁面子的行为,因而如何拒绝又不伤“面子”在日常交际中显得十分重要。现今拒绝言语行为的研究大多是从英汉文化差异的角度考量,少有文章从性别差异角度研究汉语拒绝言语行为。本文将侧重于拒绝策略的性别差异这一视角,对中文相亲节目中拒绝策略的性别差异展开研究。 Refused to be essentially a threat to face behavior, so how to reject without injury “face ” in daily communication is very important. Nowadays most of the studies that reject speech act are considered from the perspective of English-Chinese cultural differences. Few articles study Chinese reject speech act from the perspective of gender differences. This article focuses on the gender difference in rejection strategies and studies the gender differences in rejection strategies in Chinese blind dates programs.