一个人知道的事,不要让第二个人知道,两个人知道的事,不要让第三个人知道,三个以上人知道的事,便没有秘密了。人生最难三件事:保守秘密,忘掉所受创伤,充分利用余暇。保守秘密会加重心理负担,进而损害身体健康,秘密越多,压力越大,与秘密捆绑一束,便是被秘密绑架,控制其一生。一桩秘密到底能守多少年,有的人自觉万缘将尽,欲放下世间是非,不愿把折磨人的秘密带入棺材,恐魂不守舍,死不瞑目,于今老病干戈日,恨不逢君尽一壶,几杯酒下肚,悉数抖落出来,终于喘过一口长气来。 Do not let a second person know something that two people know, do not let a third person know, and there is no secret whatsoever three or more people know. Three things in life is the most difficult: keep the secret, forget the trauma, make full use of leisure time. Keeping a secret will aggravate the psychological burden, thus harming your health, the more secrets, the greater the pressure, and bundled with the secret, it is secretly abducted to control their lives. A secret can in the end how many years, some people will never do anything, want to put down the world right and wrong, do not want to torture the secret into the coffin, A pot, a few glasses of wine, all shake off, and finally breath away.